Shine a light on violence against women

Day 9 - signs of violence

Recognising the signs of domestic violence is the first step towards getting help
The most telling sign of an abusive relationship is a fear of your partner.

  • Do you feel like you have to walk on eggshells?
  • Do you feel like you are always watching what you say and do to avoid provoking anger?
  • Does your partner belittle you? Or try to control you?

day 9

Do you suspect someone you know might be experiencing domestic violence? It's impossible to know with certainty what goes on behind closed doors, but there are some telltale signs and symptoms of emotional abuse and domestic violence. If you witness any warning signs of abuse in a friend, family member, or co-worker, take them very seriously. Thanks to HelpGuide.org for this information http://www.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/domestic-violence-and-abuse.htm
People who are being abused may:

  • Seem afraid or anxious to please their partner
  • Go along with everything their partner says and does
  • Check in often with their partner to report where they are and what they're doing
  • Receive frequent, harassing phone calls from their partner
  • Talk about their partner's temper, jealousy, or possessiveness

People who are being physically abused may:

  • Have frequent injuries, with the excuse of "accidents"
  • Frequently miss work, school, or social occasions, without explanation
  • Dress in clothing designed to hide bruises or scars (e.g. wearing long sleeves in the summer or sunglasses indoors)

People who are being isolated by their abuser may:

  • Be restricted from seeing family and friends
  • Rarely go out in public without their partner
  • Have limited access to money, credit cards, or the car

People who are being abused may:

  • Have very low self-esteem, even if they used to be confident
  • Show major personality changes (e.g. an outgoing person becomes withdrawn)
  • Be depressed, anxious, or suicidal

If you, or suspect someone you know is, experiencing domestic violence you can find more information via 1800RESPECT.

The campaign

Day 1 - Overview of violence against women

Day 2 - Who is at risk

Day 3 - Myths

Day 4 - Physical violence

Day 5 - Emotional abuse

Day 6 - Sexual violence

Day 7 - Financial abuse

Day 8  - Violence and technology

Day 9 - The signs of violence

Day 10 - Outcomes of violence

Day 11 - Surviving violence

Day 12 - How can you help?

Day 13 - Preventing violence

Day 14 - Violence and children

Day 15 - Violence and homelessness

Day 16 - Human rights

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